I appreciate all the input to my question.  I seriously doubt that I will post much of anything again as some on the responses are very hurtful and certainly not what I had expected.

"Nothing personal, but if I want to explore my erotic side, I'd rather do it up close and personal with the love of my life and not vicariously through computer generated pixels."

That is the remark that actually hurt the most as in my life I am physically not able to expore my erotic side except through poser and my fantasy.  Some of us have serious physical limitations that can never be overcome.

The question was legitimate and I will take it elseware.  Thank you and goodbuy.