Quote - Yes Acadia, like you let the erotica argument go when it was obvious that you and the other person were at loggerheads over a definition.

The difference if you haven't noticed, is that one was a debate, and this is just outright gossiping about someone who isn't even here to defend themselves against what is said about them.

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi