Just to play devil's advocate for once - well if Dodger's going to play nice someone has to do it - why the hell are you giving these a**holes the satisfaction of "winning"????

I am with Acadia 100,000,000% on this - if they re bitching cos they aren't getting stuff for free then they can just go boil and wait until hell freezes over for "my" friendship. 

Generous offer and all that but it does seem a kneejerk, overly wearied action to just get them off your back - don;t tell me you are going "soft" on us :o