I think that Traveler, messenger and DarkstarBurning pretty much covered it.

The selfishness that I see in the Poser community is not coming from those that spend their time making freebies with a small restriction on them.  It's coming from those that feel that they should be given something for nothing because they don't want to take the time to learn to make something that they are going to turn around and make money off of themselves.

That's the crux of it pretty much.  You should PAY for something if you are going to turn around and sell and make a profit.  If you are just going to use them in your own personal textures and artwork then that's all cool, but don't climb on the back of someone else's talent to get something to the marketplace and not expect to pay something for it.

And you could always ask the creator of said free products before you come into a public forum and start whining about how unfair it is.

Boohoo.....

That's selfish.