my final post!!! (with exclamation marks!! used as spacing!! and not to emphisise anything!!!) thanks to aeikema for understanding that this is not a serious thread!!! to karen i'm sorry but i don't understand what i said to upset you!! you're reply seems to be some kind of insult aimed at me!!! which is why this will be my last post here!! as you are a  moderator!! and this is your site!! if i'm not welcome then i'm not welcome!!! your comment seems to be indicating that i am gay in some way!!! as a single parent to a four year old!!! (for four years)it makes no sense to me!!! so i don't understand your comments!!! i don't know the movie character you are likening me too!! so don't know what you mean!!to mizrael!! you missunderstood what i meant(probally my fault again) i meant i don't go through the galleries commenting on pictures with a view to them commenting on mine as a result!! i always(usually anyway) look at what someone has posted as a result of them commenting on my image!!! if i like what i am greeted with,or am impresssed then i comment back!!! i like to see where other people are at!! and encouraging others with what they are doing!! but i could never bring myself to comment on someones piccy!! just to get a comment back!! just doesn't seem right to me!!! not genuine feedback!!! anyway sorry i upset some people with my thread!!! it wasn't meant to be serious!!! i've got more important things like keeping my son happy and healthy,than to worry about what anyone here thinks of me!!! so this will be my last post here in the forums!!! i don't think i fit in here!!!