For what its worth,as a man,I'm much more attracted to a woman who has some weight ( The voluptuous group in BH's Primer ),than any of the other groups.

 

I think men may fall victim to what society thinks they should like.

 

Hopefully I can explain this.

 

My first wife,fell somewhere in the "thin" to "fit/toned" category.

She was considered "Hot" by society's standards and that was a big boost to "MY" ego.

 

Naturally I felt like a big shot being seen with society's idea of a fine specimen.

 

But I found that was much more physically attracted to heavier women,but I wouldn't admit to that because I thought I'd be ridiculed by my male friends for thinking that way.

 

I was much younger then,and probably fell victim to that kind of pressure.But the truth be told,I'd much rather get wrapped up with a voluptuous woman. I'd also wager that more men than you might think are also attracted to heavier women.Many wouldn't admit it though, because they would feel like they are not subscribing to what society thinks they should be attracted too.

 

Am I making sense here? 

 

I guess what I'm trying to say is, Not only does it seem that society (meaning magazines, movies,etc) try to tell women what they should look like,...it also tries to tell men,what they should be attracted to.

 

I think it comes down to...People have different ideas of what is attractive to them.I just try not to let "Society" decide for me what turns me on.

 

Tom

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