Quote - The really important thing it that they are HAPPY! The unhappy ones have the problems wheither in one extreme, the other extreme or in between.

Hear, hear!  I was a Weight Watchers trainer for a year or so (which you can't do unless you have been there and lost the weight; I lost fifty pounds), and the thing I harped on constantly with my folks is that if you are happy, you are probably the right weight.

The most interesting phenomenon I found was that successful weight losers often celebrated that success with a nice divorce. As did I. Speaking of co-dependency....

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