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Poseray can go from .3ds to .obj, but not from .obj to .3ds. :(
Blender can only import 16 textures.  And its interface is a rather unruly beast, filled with errors that appear if try to edit the settings of the .obj object you are importing.

Any free easy to use polygon reduction tools out there?  As in, I load the model, click something, and it doesn't crash, lock up for hours without telling me whats going on, or create a horrible looking image that is unusuable?  Someone mentioned once that if the polygon count was reduced, it might load up.

I assume everyone that uses daz3d or other modeling programs, has something they do to reduce the polygon count to reasonable amount, making it usuable in games.