ah, X's.... can't live with them, can't tie them to an anchor and drop them into the Straits of Valdez. but that's just me. as a guy, I can only say that Patrick doesn't know what he's on about, lashing out and looking the fool for doing so...... stay strong, stay smart, everytime he lashes out, just nod and smile and take notes. we're here for ya. and unless you've made other plans, have a great day! life is like juggling 3 rabid badgers, if you don't get torn up in the process, it's a beautiful thing!