To svdl: thank you that was exactly what I was trying to say.  As I pointed  out, I like coming here...but its just not as frendly as it used to be.  I used the banning as an example, perhaps I should not have. This is still a great site..but it just seem to me that its gotten a little ... can`t think of the word... LOL...And i agree I think the staff are doing a good job, but it just seems to me that when you do bring something like this up they get a might bit testy, and that was not my intention, my intention is to point out what I and others see as an inconsinstency (?) in the enforcement of the TOS.

But all in all svdl said better than I did.

ok I`ll shut up...for a little while, maybe.

and once again, this is just my opinion.

thanks.