Quote - I will not respond to all the crap above with the exception of 2 members.

Lucky me!!   I made his list of  "exceptions."  Why I'm not sure  

Karen, I feel for you :)  I'm not really sure what he feels he's gaining by doing this. But unfortunately some people (both men and women) sometimes revert to childish tactics during a breakup. I've never really understood that.  I used to work as a paralegal and dealt with many divorces, and I can attest to the fact that there are many bitter people out there that try to stick it to their ex-spouse.

Karen, I'm glad to see that you are trying to handle this in a mature way and do what is best for your son, instead of taking the low road.

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi