Sandy, accept this note from a person you do not know.  Yet, within me is empathy and the experience of deep loss.   I cannot relate directly to your loses but do pray for you and for all for endurance, comfort, peace and recovery.  The material things may be replaced, agreed, at a price and with much discomfort along the way. The loss of the child, oh my, this makes my heart bleed for you and cry for your comfort and that of all concerned.  God be with you all and provide a moment of special peace, moment to moment as needed along the healing way.        TomDart.