With all due respect to past events that affect you, here is a paraphrase of a famous quote (from the bible):

A flaw for a flaw.

People tend to ravage against what they deem to be examples of the 'flaws'  of society (family, times, or whatnot) when it really reflects their retaliation against their own flaws exemplified in others.  When one finally accepts their flaws and can also attain empathy for others' flaws, there is a greater peaceful coexistence and acceptance than ever.  Noone is perfect.  Let he who is without flaw cast the first stone.  (And I'm not religious, just partial to the Golden Rule and acceptance of mutual existentialism).

C makes it easy to shoot yourself in the foot. C++ makes it harder, but when you do, you blow your whole leg off.

 -- Bjarne Stroustrup

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