I love people with kind hearts. Can tell alot about that person.
Let her eat and do whatever she wants with the life that is she has left Tom. When i nursed we had this 83 year old male with COAD( chronic obstructive airway disease). He loved his smokes and they told him he had to stop smoking. I thought how stupid these people were to try and take something away from what he loves doing. He is 83. Amazing.
Chris