Piet, I do not have flowers.  I send instead a peaceful brook.  You could sit on a rock and ponder but I suspect you might rather walk the shore, taking in all of the life and peace the sounds and surroundings provide.  I wish this for your family, fully from my heart.

I am very glad we had the short IM conversations recently.   Piet, I do pray for comfort for you and all and certainly in special ways for the mother.   I wish peace to come much more quickly than we generally receive...may that peace knock at your doors soon and some of the burden be lifted as it is handled well.   
God Bless my friend.         Tom.

I can also supply a large file if desired. Then again, you might want to simply take this all from the wonderful folks here straight from the thread, text and all.  Hang in there.  : )