You are beautiful....and courageous, and wonderful to share yourself with us like this....this brings back so many memories...I used to lay in bed at night with Chelsea, and do these exercises where I would gently touch my tummy where I could feel a limb. I read this book on doing so, and it said eventually the fetus may try to touch or respond to the movement not by jerking away but by actually touching. In about my seventh month she touched back, and I almost flew out of the bed like a rocket it shocked me so much. Good luck lady, Syyd