Quote - but now this looks like an assasin market where you talk about memberships against non-members, of privileges of information, about 'I'm a member nah-nah-nah so I can and you can't nah-nah-nah', holding in your hands the TOS like a warhammer to smash your opposite...

 
I don't view it like that at all.  I havn't seen anyone who have the PC membership posted here only to gloat against those who doesn't have access.  
Remember, this whole thing started because the original poster provided a link to a members only forum.  Now, who knows what was the intent of that poster to provide the link that can't be accessed by everyone.  Do you really think it was done to tease those who doesn't have the access?  If that was really the intent, then you should take the issue with that person.  Because, as far as I'm concerned, rest of the other PC members only posted about why the images cannot be posted because of TOS.  It wasn't them who posted the unaccessible link and telling you to join the membership.  
I don't have the membership myself either, but I don't have issues with people posting links to members only forum.  If I can't access it then I just move on and ignore the thread.  But I could certainly understand how you could view it as teasing.