Ouch CD, it's much worse when they're relations.  I've seen a few people like that go in on their family in front of me.  I completely understand why you felt the way you did.  Temporary insanity... hmmmmmmmmmm.... nah!  They'd get me with a hate crime, my ex GM's queer as a three dollar bill... but nobody notices >wink wink<. 

mdb

ps;  That phrase is not hate speech but a good old coloquialism used around here.  :c)