You know, Xenia, if you want people to be open, helpful, honest and friendly, it's generally better not to be impolite.

Pretty much every post you've made in this thread has been abrupt, condescending or downright rude. You've asked people for their opinions and they've given them. Next time they may not bother.

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"you are terrifying
and strange and beautiful
something not everyone knows how to love." - Warsan Shire