Quote - joel, I didn't know about that. sorry to hear it, and I hope the docs can help yer recovery to the best of their ability.

I didn't bring it up for sympathy.  I brought it up to show a point.  A lot of tolerance is attitude.  If you work on having an upbeat attitude, you also tend to be more happy.  Happy and secure, I'm also more tolerant.

You get there by working on it.  Like recovering lost belongings after a tornado, or recovering yourself after a stroke.  Being tolerant doesn't happen overnight.  You work on it.  Being happy doesn't happen overnight.  You work on it.

There is a dark, easy, lazy part of human nature to hate and fear that which is different from us.

GET OVER IT!

Let that part go and work on being better than you are,  and the rest follows! ^__^ V,,

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