No one is ever in the chat, so you aren't missing anything.  If you got in you would probably find yourself all alone and by yourself with just you, yourself and your other self for company :)

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi