Im kinda baffled as to what is so "offensive" about asking someone to respect what others might not want to see.  I understand that 90% of the world at large is interested in seeing a large breasted woman in nothing but a lace poncho and  thong - so Im all about those people being able to see that.   

I honestly (with all due respect) can't understand why OP (casette) feels so put off about respecting other peoples desire to not see.

I do think it is an interesting topic.

I am:  aka Velocity3d