Sorry to hear about that! It's a great place to be. I know that every once in a while my aol will treat ArtNutz emails as spam,even though I keep telling it that ArtNutz is NOT spam.  LOL  I always read the spam addresses before I delete them cause aol will slip one into spam.
I will check and see if I can find out something for you, just tell me the user name you signed up with and I'll send them a pm with your user name and see what they have from their end. I have your user name from here but some people use different names at different sites.Either they will send you the info that you need or I will let you know what they said here!

Hope it gets worked out for you!!!