Its ok Onslow I know you did warn us ;-)

I just can never understand how one person can hurt another one that badly because they don't agree on something. It just don't make a bit of sense to me. what drives a person to the point they would even want to draw a single drop of blood from another?

I can not even respect people that are set out to get even on someone for something they did. to me that means you make an asshole look like a butt hole by trying to get even.

its just so sad people hurting other people  for one reason or another and to me there is never a good reason never a good reason at all to want to bring any kind of pain to someone else. well all manage to bring pain to each other by mistakes alone isnt that enough for people to have to deal with?

i guess im the kind of person that tends to think different then most. for example we have all been cut off in traffic by some clown going 100 miles an hour passing everyone just missing someone and im sure we have all flipped that clown of saying what a jerk.
and we get mad at what we dont understand. for all we know that driver was driving like that because his son was laying down in the back seat dieing and he was racing to get him to a hospital. but because we dont understand because we didnt see the son we flip him off in hate as he drives by. I prefer to write it off as something I dont understand then to feed my anger and flip him off.

there is only 3 things in this world that brings on anger
1 you dont understand
2 your scared
3 your hurt
if people would learn to deal with one of the 3 problems its not as hard to fix as the results from anger are.
just my 2 cents :-)
Miranda