""uh..haha...im kinda confused...um could you just tell me? i didnt find the answer in your guide..and the picture at DAZ doesnt work..um. thanks though..""

As a new person to this myself - I will give you some GOOD advice - even though you don't understand much of what she just said - copy that post somewhere and SAVE it, because very soon you will want to know everything she just told you.  (p.s. your question was answered in there)

I will try it for you in newb language though.  Hair, clothes are not just and inuitive thing to do.  You first have to have the right hair/clothes for your model - then you have to go about fitting it the appropriate way for whatever type of hair/clothes it is.  (She answered this when she talked about "dynamic" "conforming".  For me so far, conforming is the easiest.  So when you are looking for clothing/hair I would suggest sticking to conforming for a while.

For me it would have been easier if I simply picked one thing and learned one at a time.  Instead I've chosen to go this chaotic route of learning everything at once - (and soon either my computer or myself will go out my window) - so I suggest not going this route and just going slowly about your learning process.  The Poser file system is an excellent place to start.  Then get one outfit, one model, one hair and figure them out.

I am:  aka Velocity3d