this has become a pissing contest ..all this energy should be focused on making art ...
(just make sure that art doesn't have any nipples, cracks, orifices, pubic hairs, crotches, cleavages, holes, moles, hairy moles, cheeks, balls, nuts, muffs, cuffs, cookies, johnsons, juggs, wee-wee's, marbles, ta-ta's, one eyes bandits, choochies, hoochies, units, family jewels, slits, peckers, long duck dongs, beavers, the fuzz or hooters ... and you'll be fine ;)