Go out and immerse yourself in reality. Somehow I walk away from it with hundred times more experience and insight than people who spend a hundred times more time there than me.

Go have a quite sip of coffee at an outdoor cafe and people watch. The more quiet and observant you are, the more people want to demonstrate their personality before you, and quite often, at you. Why is that? Because people are essentially vain little drama queens who thrive on being watched, so the more you appear to take in, the more sure they are of being taken in. This will get you laid if you let it.

Just don't forget that your objective is to observe reality, or you might wind up getting a life. And struggling to abandon it a month later.