i hope my post was  productive, non attacking and non disruptive. if it was deemed otherwise i apologise.  please feel free to delete it if that was the case. that said what do you think about the suggestion. re dinhi's original suggestion.

a simple box or three would suffice in proflies. 

do you want to be placed on another members fave list

[ ] allow without coment
[ ] allow with coment
[ ] do not allow

how hard would it be to do. this way it wouldn't hurt anyone.   jmo

billy