So far as erotica props and such, you can check the following places, unfortunately due to rules about certain content I can't post the links to the first 2 sites.  You can find them at www.google.ca though by entering the name followed by the word Poser and that should pull it up for you.

Renderotica
BBay

And BVH's site.... this one I could post a link to but I don't seem to see it in my bookmarks.  Perhaps someone else will remember it and post it here.

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi