Quote - Put as simply as I see and feel it thusly:

Speak truly from the heart.  Speak as if to a friend, with feeling and helpfullness, and you can never go wrong.

That's the whole idea behind this "critique group". However, that's not the point of my post above on this page. 

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi