I very much admire the effort you and your wife are doing. Is there a particular deadline? Or can we mull this over for some time and toss and possible idea here and there? Or do you need responses like... tomorrow? Because I really would like to help. I truly admire what you two are doing.

I couldn't help remembering the old BBC comedy show "Waiting for God" (I assume it's the same title over there as it was over here.)