Quote - Who's pissed off? Have you been in another thread too?
They don't call them "threads" because they're for shredding kitty... behave!

 

Oh, sowwy, I didn't mean you.  I was hinting to my own history... and especially my participation in few unmoderated groups few years ago...  and few situations at work, in my yourger days.

Well, even now, when I walk into the office in the morning, and someone cheerfully says 'good morning' I'm more inclined to grumble off a hey, or try to be funny by saying, what's so good about it. It's never intended personally, but it's not exactly enderaing behavior.
I think I can be a female version of Mr. Darcy at times. LOL

As for the other comment you made, about groups of people engaging in less then constructive behaviors... I'll have to bug my honey to use his degree in psych and see if there is a term... I know hwat you mean, but I can't think of one. 
In my case, it has to do with comfort, there are times when I'll choose comfort over minor destructive behaviors (like eating a big piece of chocolate instead of making the art charts offering)
Conflict of interests? Comfort vs. Social interaction vs. community benefits vs. energy levels.... I dunno, between trying to do the right thing and keeping things in own life in balance I'm ready to pull my hair out  in confusion on daily basis. At some point I tell myself do something, even if it's wrong, just do something. Before I get shipped off to Overanalyzers Anonymous...
(LOL, Like stop rambling - NOW!)

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