Nah it's not the clothes or the items, I understand the lack of those.  It's the answers to questions.  

For instance - why can't I get his hand to "grasp"?   Why does parenting anything to him turn my entire scene screwy?

But I have a pretty long list of questions now building and so far the answers are far and few between.   I fiddled more and found the solution to this, but then another arises - like the ungodly overbite the character is now sporting.    If I ask a question about V4 or material nodes- 15 people are going to reply.  Basically that is the kind of support Im needing.

I am:  aka Velocity3d