Quote - actually, i've been on this site and others for years, and debated things quite amicably with others.  and i've never called anyone names or insulted them.

Maybe not that you realize. Honestly, I found your post patronizing. You undoubtedly didn't mean it that way, but I found it so. I got cranky because I've become tired of my ideas being waved away as if I'm being unreasonable. My observation was harsh and I apologize if I hurt your feelings. But I won't apologize for having an opinion and expressing it. You certainly don't have to leave. If you enjoy the club then be an adult and ignore the occasional horrible meanie like me who makes you feel bad. Tell me I'm a jerk and go on with what you enjoy. As for me, I'll stay out of it from now on.