Just as an experiment, try duplicating the layer, apply gaussian blur, set on about 5, go to layers style, blending options. Try using lighten first, but do experiment. I find I get some very nice nice effects with this method. Using lighten and adjusting the transparency can give you a little Mapplethorpe glow in the picture. I probably use the blending options more than any of the filters in Photoshop.

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