I'm sorry to hear about your loss. My own father passed away a while ago, came as a shock as he was doing well enough the day before. He was having some troubles so out of convience we let him stay overnight at the VA (Veterans Administration) hospital, since they wanted to run some tests early in the mornings for a few days. Instead of driving back and forth, he agreed to stay there for three days. Big mistake. The final day he was to be there we get a call 7 AM saying that he passed away. When we arrived the head nurse said they didn't expect the medication (that they were testing him with) would give such a reaction. Then after she realized what she said, she backtracked and didn't want to admit anything they did. Later they loose his medical records, which was found months later. The autopsy was clearly from a different person. To this day we don't know what happened to him. Anyway, it affected everyone. Couldn't concentrate at school, it was like walking through life in a limbo.

Now we just have memories. He did everything to provide things like an education for all the family. So now, it's been a decade since he passed away, all the family will talk about him, if he could see his own sacrifise that his children have all graduated, become engineers, lawyers, etc... that there's a lot of things we wish to say to him. Well.. anyway... :-(

I don't know what to say except to offer you comfort and what prayers I can. My deepest condolences.  :-(