Okay, I hate to do this, but I'm a bit confused. So at the risk of sounding like a complete airhead, I want to see if I can get this cleared up in my mind.
 I set the CF to what Jim said. Okay, so now it focuses with that little ***** button. But it doesn't focus where I want, so that means I use the other button that sets your focus point, choose your focuse point, and the red light square is on, then push the * button to focus on that point, then the shutter? Sounds confusing, but is that how it works? (in very simple words lol)

~Damia~ LeviathanPhotography