Ok. I just found it. My Forum Options. Click the left box to make the forum visible on the list and the right box for notifcations. None of the right boxes are checked, but the bottom of the forum that you post in still has the "notify me when someone replies" box checked. I just have to remember to uncheck that box.

Im getting 40-50 spam emails a day. Its soooooo time consuming to have to go through and delete them. Wish emails have something like the donotcall.gov   Life would be soooo much better! :)

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