I did find out today that it wasn't sending notifications if it was a friends request as those are 'automated' notifications sent to your sitemail. I brought it up to the programmer when I noticed I didn't receive a notification of a sitemail about  a pending friends request. He is going to fix that.

So are you saying that you have never turned your notifications for emails regarding new sitemails ON but you still receive the notifications? Or you had them turned on then decided to turn them off and still received the ebots?

Just trying to get a handle on what happened so I can talk to the programmers:)