Well on people leaving rude comments I have always found the mods here to be very helpful on deleting them for me.. and they do it in a matter of minutes from me asking them to. so i dont see a need for me to want a delete or ignor button.

the friends thing I love I think its an awesome idea :-)
I would like to see a section where the people on your friends list can talk with you but you have to be able to be on the friends list to join in the talk.. I think it would be great for some but the more I think about it.. that might cause the same problems you faced with the top 20 it really divided people so scratch that idea lol

for my wish list I would like to see a section we all have in our gallery where we can upload personal pictures to share with people on our friends list only. I dont care to use my gallery space to upload a family photo to share with a friend on here. I already did that once yesterday I took a picture of our home theater room just an everyday snap shot. not ment to be art at all. it was ment to answer a question only.
and to my surpise I got ratings of 5 on it lol same rating i get on one i put a lot of work into lol
now im thinking well crap my art dont earn a 5 people are kissing my A$$ on here lol
so a place for personal images would be great for only friends on your list to see ;-)

and out side of that I think the site is amazing on how it works and all and i think the mods do a great job keeping the clowns away as well :-)