Thanks Jani, it just seems stupid to have the Wishlist link take you to the homepage and no explanation of where the wishlists could be found - I did find it eventually.

Now I'm ticked because I've put one item in my cart as a gift and thought it was damn cool and I'd buy it for myself only to find i can't add it to that order because it already shows in my cart - I don't want to do loads of transactions but I'm being forced into it.   The software is already able to recognise that an item is a gift because it doesn't let me download it so why won't it let me add the same thing to the cart as a purchase for myself.

I'm off to sulk and decide if I really do want it because I'm not fond of jumping through the same convoluted hoop just to purchase 2 items sighs

Thanks for the help!