Ok, I went and did that for all of them and now when I click on each name in each group only 1 link is red at a time.

EDIT: By the way, I'm sorry that this is taking so long. I'm not the brightest bulb in the store when it comes to learning computer things.  Frankly I'm amazed that I've gotten this far on this, or that you have had the patience to stick with me this long :)

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi