Ok, I did a bit more searching and found that the obituary was  published in The Arizona Republic on 6/23/2004

You can order a one day viewing of the archived publish of the obituary, online for $2.95. Go  to this link and type in Donald Tatro. His is the first one on the search page.

http://www.legacy.com/Obituaries.asp

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi