Yippie - it didn't take the time I expected and the first try was successfull!
It works!!! First I load V3,apply the character pose file and the hide file and load the eyes - and they are in fact in the position I like them to! :)

And finally I found out that the eyes following the head if I change something on the morphs, one moment later the eyes are big, too. 

Thanks a lot!! You made me very, very happy!!
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