Quote - favourite woman of mine is Marg Helgenberger, she's nearly 50, would people say she's not beautiful because she doesn't have that youthful look? 

She may be nearly 50, but she has child like features as well. Large doe eyes, larger forehead, pouty lips.  All of those combined give her child like qualities that people find appealing to look at.

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi