ICM, you should post that song as a Sticky to cheer everyone up.
I know how you feel Fran, I wrote a song once about bad luck and the chorus went (something like)

"Why me what have I done?
All I ever wanted was a little bit of fun.
Why me tangled up in knotts?
The only reply i get is....Why Not??

Basically I was trying to say that it is not our faults most times so chuck the guilt away and concentrate on getting to the goodtimes. Jen