Quote - ...Ever been in a fight or seen one, or othe moments of drama?...

Lots, and warfare too.
Ever hear of 'the thousand yard stare?"
Drama is for movies and actors; and only amateur warriors show their emotions. A trained or professional fighter/killer is emotionless; or at least keeps a tight reign on emotions. Certainly there will be no outward display. An emotional warrior is a dead warrior.

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