Quote - maybe their rules mean that a girl grabbing her boobs or crotch is verboten,
as well as a dude grabbing some girl's boobs/crotch may be verboten.

Covering is not the same as "grabbing"  Sexuality would be nipple manipulation, not simply the hand of the breast owner placed over the breast.

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi