This HAS gotten out of hand and turned into something very different than I think it started out to be.  But, that's probably human nature, and we all see things differently, just another beauty of the universe we live in. 
I think it once again boils down to letting people do what they want; we don't have to like what they do or how they do it.  It becomes our choice to look, comment, respond, or not.  For me, the good far outweighs the bad here, and I'll just do what I've been doing, which is having a great time!!