The most important checkbox is "Include existing groups". The screenshot shows how I usually set an export, with "include" checked and all other boxes unchecked.

Even then you can get problems, because modelling apps
generally treat the concept of "group" differently from Poser.
For instance, the nipples may be a different material zone,
and Blender may interpret that as a different piece altogether.

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